Divorce can be a stressful process that involves making numerous decisions with one’s soon-to-be ex-spouse. Often, divorcing couples need help dividing property and reaching agreements during their divorce proceedings but do not want to go through the stress and hassle of bringing a judge in to settle their dispute.
One option that many divorcing couples benefit from is hiring a mediator. A divorce mediator can help couples reach an agreement on many divorce-related issues, including division of property, spousal support, child custody, and more.
If you and your spouse struggle to agree during your divorce process, hiring a mediator could be your best solution. Read on to learn more about a mediator’s role in California and how our Seabrook Law Offices divorce and family attorney team might assist you.
A mediator is a neutral third party who sits down with divorcing couples and helps them discuss their options and reach a mutually beneficial agreement. Mediators do not make decisions for couples, as a judge would. Instead, they help couples explore all of their options and reach an agreement on their own.
Divorce mediators have the knowledge and experience necessary to help couples reach the fairest agreements throughout their divorce proceedings. These professionals can assist couples in the following areas:
If you and your spouse are considering divorce or have already begun the divorce process, hiring a mediator is an excellent way to retain control over the crucial decisions in your case. Utilizing mediation can also teach you and your spouse effective conflict resolution skills that you can use separately or together in the future.
Not all divorcing couples require the assistance of a mediator. Couples who can reach mutually beneficial agreements on their own may not need mediation services. Additionally, couples who cannot reach an agreement even with the help of a mediator may require a judge to make decisions for them.
However, many divorcing couples find mediation beneficial and effective in helping them reach the best agreements for both parties. Specifically, mediation can be constructive in the following situations:
Hiring a divorce mediator is an effective way for these couples to make the divorce agreement process as smooth and stress-free as possible.
Hiring a mediator for divorce proceedings can be beneficial for several reasons, including a few of the most prominent ones listed below. A mediator can help you to:
One of the primary reasons couples hire a mediator is to resolve disagreements without bringing the court into their divorce process. Going to court can be expensive, time-consuming, and stressful. Additionally, once a couple brings their divorce to court, their documents become public, eliminating their privacy as a couple.
A mediator could be the perfect solution if you need qualified assistance during your divorce but want to avoid going to court.
Bringing a judge into your divorce proceedings to make decisions will ultimately result in decisions that make one or both spouses unhappy. However, hiring a mediator to help you reach an agreement ensures that you and your spouse reach a decision that you both approve of and have an equal say in.
Hiring a mediator who is also a divorce attorney can allow you and your spouse to receive objective, qualified advice about divorce proceedings. Divorce lawyers have extensive experience helping couples navigate the divorce process. Utilizing their expertise and skills can allow you and your spouse to reach the best agreements possible.
Going to court to settle divorce disputes can be extremely expensive. However, even if you and your spouse need to meet with a mediator multiple times, you will probably still save money compared to the cost of court proceedings and having two opposing legal teams.
At Seabrook Law Offices in San Jose, CA, we have an experienced mediator on our team ready to assist you in reaching an agreement that benefits you, your spouse, and any children involved. Family Law Attorney Elizabeth Voorhees has 16 years of experience in 11 counties in Northern California. She is a graduate of Santa Clara University School of Law, where she was honored with a scholarship from the Women In Law sorority for her outstanding work in the field of domestic violence advocacy. Post law school, Elizabeth completed two courses at Pepperdine University School of Law: Mediating the Litigated Case and Domestic Relations Mediation, a mediation course specific to Family Law. In 2005, she completed both levels of advanced training in collaborative divorce. Elizabeth and the team at Seabrook Law Offices can help you navigate the divorce process to get the second chance you need to make a fresh start.
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